Ever met someone who was determined to be rude without even really knowing you? Over the last month or so, I’ve had several first-hand experiences with a girl who seems to make it a priority to be dismissive and flat out antisocial each time we are in the same setting.
“I’ll be nicer than necessary,” I told myself, showing genuine interest in being cordial for the sake of the vibe. Over time I realized that I was the only one initiating the effort.
At first, I was flat out confused. Next, I theorized. Then, I found myself frustrated that I couldn’t figure out the underlying issue.
Why would anybody be so ugly toward another person without a legitimate reason? I wondered whether there was some misunderstanding I knew nothing about or whether I’d said something that came off wrong.
There are Levels to This
Eventually, I settled on this – she’s simply not on my level.
Life is far from perfect, but it is so full of boundless love and light that I have only that to give to those around me. I wish others well even when they wish me to hell. There is a certain peace in being kind that makes it my natural instinct.
I choose to laugh more than I frown and to see the good in every situation that comes my way. Each day I focus on elevation and positive vibrations.
Not everyone is there yet. And although abrasive energy can tempt the best of us to set it off – why would we? Most of how people respond to us reflects their own internal struggles.
Instead of taking the situation personally, I have to remember that her insulting behavior has absolutely nothing to do with me. As I mature, I am steadfast on going high in every instance when someone else goes low. I refuse to meet people where they are at the cost of sinking my vibration.
I am light. Get on my level.